Update SkDestroyListener to take consumer for inetDiagMessage processing

This is a no-op refactoring (except for logging) in preparation for an
upcoming CL(aosp/3502915) that will use SkDestroyListener to close quic
connections for destroyed quic sockets.

Test: atest FrameworksNetTests
Bug: 311792075
Change-Id: I41e2a16075fc9242cae19f84d1255358333744ab
4 files changed