Add startSkDestroyListener flag to native_init

This CL prepares for upcoming CL.
Upcoming CL will add SkDestroyListener with Java BpfMap and switch
current C SkDestroyListener and new Java SkDestroyListener based on the
experiment flag.

Bug: 217624062
Test: atest SkDestroyListenerTest
Change-Id: I5ebb319d1b2262199d4ef6a3549894fee24c4ccf
4 files changed