patch 8.1.1739: deleted match highlighting not updated in other window

Problem:    Deleted match highlighting not updated in other window.
Solution:   Mark the window for refresh. (closes #4720)  Also fix that
            ambi-width check clears with wrong attributes.
diff --git a/src/testdir/dumps/Test_matchdelete_1.dump b/src/testdir/dumps/Test_matchdelete_1.dump
new file mode 100644
index 0000000..06b16b5
--- /dev/null
+++ b/src/testdir/dumps/Test_matchdelete_1.dump
@@ -0,0 +1,12 @@
+> +0&#ffffff0@74
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+|~| @73
+|~| @73
+|~| @73
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+|H+0&&|e|l@1|o| |V|i|m| |w|o|r|l|d| @59
+|~+0#4040ff13&| @73
+|~| @73
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